You did it. You made the decision to get sober. Maybe you went to detox or you white-knuckled it through withdrawal at home, maybe you’re working a program or seeing a therapist. However you got here, you’re trying — really trying — to build a life without substances. And then you come home. Your partner…
Your phone buzzes at 11 p.m. It’s your friend again. “I don’t think I can keep doing this.” Your heart sinks. You want to help. You should help. But you also don’t know what to say, and honestly, you’re exhausted. This is the third time this week. Or maybe it’s been every weekend for the…
It’s hard to know when to step in. Addiction rarely looks the way we expect. It doesn’t always mean someone is falling apart. Sometimes it means they’re still going to work, still texting back, still doing just enough to keep questions at bay. Sometimes it means they keep saying, “I’m fine.” But if…